Learning to Love

* An Introductory Note: My blog contains a blend of fiction and creative non-fiction. When I tell of events specifically involving myself, they really happened to me. Sometimes I blur exact locations and change the names of people involved to protect their anonymity. This particular post involves a real-life person who is very important to…… Continue reading Learning to Love

Big Bouncing Beauties

It usually starts before I even speak to a man. Or even to a woman for that matter. People, for the most part, are very polite. But it’s always there. Most people look first at my boobs and then at my face. A few ardent souls will try and keep eye contact but the sexual…… Continue reading Big Bouncing Beauties

A Guide to Practical Sex Magic

Real Magic As we’re in this Halloween season and people talk freely of ghosts and magic I’d like to make a confession of my own. I believe in magic. Real magic of course. Carl Sagan, the famous scientist and educator, once famously said: “What an astonishing thing a book is. It’s a flat object made…… Continue reading A Guide to Practical Sex Magic

4 Ways To Banish Sex Guilt and Shame

I am not a sex therapist. I am a mom and a wife and a woman and a lover. My advice and opinions don’t come under the endorsement of a degree nor am I qualified to give you therapy. Unless it’s massage 🙂 But then again, this is free. So I suppose I’m doing as…… Continue reading 4 Ways To Banish Sex Guilt and Shame

New Story: To Lie Beneath

Hello everyone, As I wrote about earlier here I have written a new story. It’s called To Lie Beneath: An Erotic Tale of Horror. And it’s just that. Horror. It’s not your cutesy girl falls in love with a vampire and they have hot and steamy sex kind of story. In medieval times, people believed in many different kinds…… Continue reading New Story: To Lie Beneath

Would You Read Horror Erotica?

I have always delighted in scary and creepy things much to my husband’s delight. In fact, our first date ever was to a horror movie. I love the macabre and creepy. My husband used to work for a mortuary when we were first married and I’d make some extra money by helping him clean the…… Continue reading Would You Read Horror Erotica?

The Football Dare

I grew up in a football home. My dad coached little-league and all my brothers played. I was a cheerleader on the sidelines for all their games. I was not very good. I was the football girl. You know, the one who actually understood the game and had an opinion about what was going on.…… Continue reading The Football Dare

The Struggle of Misconceptions

I have a struggle to confess to my readers. When an author writes about crime stories, or murder stories, in particular, no one asks that author if they actually go out and kill people when they’re not writing. They’re able to distinguish what the author writes from the author’s life. But when an author writes…… Continue reading The Struggle of Misconceptions